Which is tremendously exciting for me, being impotent in that regard. Chastity provides that because you cannot engage in active penetrative sex. For me, that's what I truly wanted, that's my sexual fantasy. It reinforces my kinky headspace that I am inferior, a faggot, someone who does not deserve to be allowed to get off, who needs to be put in their place. With chastity, there's a feeling of enclosure, every part or your cock is completely encased, enclosed. I'm definitely into sensory play in a lot of kinky ways. What drew you to the fetish in the first place? When I got back home, I had to hide the indent marks from the metal cuffs on my wrists. I was in chastity about five hours that first time… It was actually Christmas Eve. That was the first time I ever hooked up with a guy, besides making out and touching someone's feet my first year of college. It was a metal cage, and I was so turned on that I couldn't get soft enough to actually get into the device. One of the first things he did was put me in a chastity device. Jerry: The very first time I ever met up with anyone for play, I was 19. VICE: What was your first interaction with chastity? The cage makes my subby side come out, and you really just wanna latch on and have some good snuggles that night. I know especially in grad school I would often just jack off to get it out of the way, so locking up makes everything a little more fun and out of reach. I've often had a lower sex drive than the partners that I'm with, so I've found it actually gets me going a little more. I was a hot mess… it was all over my pants, my coat, everything.
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I was standing and hadn't realized that you have to sit down to go when you're locked up. When you read a story or watch a porn, it's sexy the whole time, but you have to clean it every day, you have to make sure you're trimmed, so it doesn't pinch your hair, you have be sure you're cautious when using a restroom… I remember one time I used a public bathroom and ended up getting pee everywhere. What surprised you the most about wearing a cage? For me, it's a lot of the wearing something sexy and people not knowing. I remember back in high school getting high-top chucks because it was a really low-level form of bondage you could wear every day because it restricted your ankle.
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Someone saying "wear this shirt" or "wear this underwear," that stuff gets me excited. I'm into someone having a certain level of control over me. It's the "not getting off" part I like the most.